THE NAKED TRUTHS |
Reveal your deepest secrets. The things you would never tell your partner about your relationship. The things you do that you would never tell your friends about. The fantasies you keep hidden. How do you really feel? We want to know. Submit in the ask, and a post will be made for you. (if you are not anon, your link will be posted underneath your submission's graphic! be careful!) The ask is also open for advice and questions. Both owners are willing to give advice on any of your sexual (or not) issues. We don't bite. ;D |
Anonymous asked: Okay so I'm like 8" long and 6" in circumstance. My gf measured me. But I was wondering is that really that big cause my gf complains about it even when use lube? When I look down on it it does seem big but is that just self perceptions I heard it always look smaller to the guy then it actually is ?
That is considered pretty big. (6” circumference? are you sure that’s right?) Try not going too deep, that’s what normally makes it hurt during sex.
Anonymous asked: How does sex feel? I mean, for a girl. Why is it pleasurable? I've seen a lot of descriptions of how it feels emotionally and comparisons with pleasurable things that are completely unrelated with sex but I'm a virgin and I would really like to know how come sex feels so good? Does it feel differently than masturbation?
This is hard to answer! Ugh. I’ll try. ;)
Sex feels really awesome for a lot of reasons. Not only is it an act of passion herp derp derp lovey dovey crap, but it’s a kind of stimulation you can’t give yourself. In other words, no, it feels nothing like masturbation. It’s a feeling that’s hard to describe. You’ve got something inside of you, attached to a human and not your fingers, which is not exactly common with masturbation. You don’t have all the control. Have you ever noticed that it doesn’t tickle when you tickle yourself? It’s the same kind of thing. You feel more pleasure because you’re not doing it. It’s even better when you climax, because when your muscles contract, they’re contracting around something, and it’s amazing.
Sex is awesome and when you’re ready, you’ll understand. :P
Anonymous asked: so i lost my virginity a couple of months ago and it was extremely painful and i bled a lott, since then i've had sex twice and it still hurts. ive been having trouble getting wet and i feel horrible because i know the guy i'm dating wants to have sex but i cant. help?!
Lube is the most overlooked solution to every problem ever! It will make it easier and less painful to have sex, and it will let you stop worrying about having to be wet all the time.
If you have no way of getting lube, (use spit!) or you can spend more time on foreplay. Foreplay is also a really overlooked solution. Not only will it make you wetter, but it will relax your vag and make it expand so you’re more prepared for sex.
Good luck! xoxo
Anonymous asked: I'm really loud in sex and it's really inconvenient at times if we are trying to be discrete. Any tips on how I could be quieter? xx
Self control is the key. Try and distract yourself. Kiss your partner more, or maybe bite a pillow. Just relax and enjoy it, I’m sure it will be even more pleasurable if you’re more calm for once.
Anonymous asked: I love giving oral, but I'm really afraid that I might hurt the guy cause my front teeth are kinda big.. I heard about a girl at my school having an accident like such , so now I'm really freaking out! What can I do to keep from hurting my guy??
Cover your teeth with your lips! Basics. :)
Anonymous asked: Im 17, and Ive had a thing with this guy for a while but were not dating. hes had sex with 2 different people before, but im a virgin, and i havent gone farther than making out before. we were talking the other day about what he's done and stuff and i said it frustrated me how i wasnt very experienced, compared to him especially. all he said was "nah its cool, i dont think either of us want to do anything like that anyways" why is this? i want to do shit, im tired of being green.
Tell him that! The best way to go about almost anything is to be open and talk about it. Tell him that you want to hook up with him! You’ll never know unless you ask.
Anonymous asked: after you blow a guy and swallow is it normal to keep kissing and hooking up or is that gross for him?
It all depends on the guy. My boyfriend doesn’t mind, but another guy might. You should wait for him to initiate it, if you’re unsafe, but if you feel confident, go for it.
Anonymous asked: my boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and I'm ready to have sex with him ( I'm currently a virgin) and he isn't and we both agreed we want to do it I'm not on birth control yet if I use a condom whats the likeliness of me getting pregnant? thats one thing that really scares me and is keeping me from having sex with him
As long as you use a condom correctly, the chances of you getting pregnant are very, very low. You can even have him pull out before he ejaculates while using a condom to lower the chances even more. As long as you use a condom and use it right, your chances are as small as they can get.
Get spermicidal lubed condoms, they help make you feel safer too. :)
Anonymous asked: Quick question, how long do you think a guy should wash their hands for after jacking off? And do you think they should take a shower right after masturbating or sex?
It’s not like there’s a set amount of time, but as long as you use soap and water, you should be fine.
As long as you clean up your mess, you don’t have to take a shower after masturbation or sex. Though some couples like to shower after sex, its not necessary.
I know, it’s been forever, and thank you for those who are still following me! I’m back, and hopefully for a while! I now have a Mac, so I’m not sure how I’m going to continue to make the same photo posts as I used to, but hopefully I’ll figure something out.
Anyway, now that I’m here I’ll answer the questions in the ask! Ask more and submit your confessions (or nudes), lovelies. <3
